Isn't it Right to stand for yourself?

In modern times when we have grown u reading stories of many Bravehearts like Rani Jhansi, Rani Padmavati, Draupadi, and many females or male characters who inspired us by their decision making and made a mark in the history. A question always arises that why still females or anyone who is a soft-hearted person is considered weaker 

In our society, on one hand, we worship them in form of Durga, Laxmi but on the other hand, in our daily lives, we hear many disturbing stories of domestic abuse, rapes, or sometimes more dangerous of them all that is Mental abuse. People have always tried to hide such stories or chose to keep mum either for the sake of fake society's reputation or their own personal weaknesses. 

We can't blame any particular caste, creed or sex for such things, I feel we females are somewhere responsible for this condition of womanhood. For instance, Why we teach our girls always to be patient even if something wrong happens, Why don't we teach them to differentiate between what's wrong and what's right for them. If we are against a thing, why don't we have the courage to speak for ourselves at the very moment when something wrong happens, why do we wait for years to speak or wait for a big campaign like "Me Too"  

As a woman, I feel it's our responsibility to teach our next generation to stand for themselves, be it a boy or a girl, and support other humans around us who are dealing with something tough in their life. 

A lot that has happened in past few years around me (not exactly in my life), has pushed me to ask this question that is it wrong to speak your mind or stand for yourself?

P.S.  #Sushant Singh Rajput's demise has affected me a lot as he was the first and last actor, I have loved. He was a good human as per the sources and am still not able to accept that he is gone. 

Please help people around you guys and be kind to yourself and the others. 

 

Before The Candle Burns Out

This is the post I read on one of my Blogger friend's Blog. And I loved it so much that I am posting it here as it is after taking his permission. Hope, you'll like it too.

No, she did not feel naked. He was loving her soul inside her body.

Her breathing was uneven and shallow. His was no different.

There he was, on top of her, his glorious eyes piercing her beautiful ones. She blushed furiously and he smiled as he bent down to kiss her coral lips. The more she blushed, the prettier she seemed to him.

Her hands, already snaked around his neck, now knotted themselves in his hair, pulling him closer to herself, closer and closer still.

His fingers tingled her as they trailed across her naked form, arousing sensations that she had never felt, had never known to be existent.

She shivered. He kissed her harder, deeper.

Fingers intertwined, legs entangled, it was difficult to find one’s beginning and the other’s end.

They lost track of time, each moment a bliss, each pain an ecstasy.

A small whimper escaping her lips made him stop. She opened her eyes, worried, and found his eyes boring into her own, again. She smiled at him, raised her head and kissed his lips lovingly. and he pushed her down as he kissed her back passionately.

Moments later he let out an almost inaudible moan of satisfaction.

Her cheeks flushed, her entire being trembled. The beauty of this pain and pleasure was indescribable, much like the rainbow.

He kissed her forehead, her eyes, her warm pink cheeks and her lips.

“I love you” he whispered huskily, quite out of breath.

“I love you” she whispered back in a strained but happy voice.

I am breathing in your love,

And, my life I am breathing out,

We don’t have much time, love,

Before the candle burns out...

Source: In Love with Me and Life

Isn't it worth to Wait ?

Listening to "Tinka Tinka" song from the movie "turning 30". It's a beautiful song and I cud actually relate to it. There comes a time in life when u actually, truly feel aloofed inside and out. No one approves your decisions as you've become dependent on them, living in their house. I have been realising this thing since I've quit my job. Till the time, I had my job and used to nod at every thing my parents used to tell me, I was a good daughter. My decisions were approved. But, now since I am jobless, don't have a boy friend who wants to marry me or (whome I want to marry), surving alone, Now I have become good for nothing in everyone's eyes. I can't take my decisions. I can't go for outing with my friends. People come and tell me that I am ruining my life sitting idel at home and to make it worse they advice me to get married as soon as possible to whomesoever my parents approve.

Don't I have the right to choose a guy for myself just becoz I'm jobless and getting old? Rather than spending next 30 years of mysery with a person, isn't it worth to wait for the right person to come and spend some less years (but happy moments) with the one I love. I don't know, where life will lead me but I know I will fight till I live and will marry only the one whome I find suitable for myself. Rightnow, I urgently need a job, so that I can move out of my parents home and live on my own.

Love is in the Air ...

Most of us alsways misinterpret the term love. We take it as a mutual feeling between a girl and a boy. But it can be anything special between two individuals. Be it your family member, a friend, a relative or anyone.. yes, if someone or some gesture touches your heart, that is love.
Here is an awesome message from one of my loving friends that made my day, I have changed few lines to make it suit my situation. Read on:

Love is when Mom stares at me quitely and smiles.

Love is when my father opens the door late night I come back from office and asks how was the day?

Love is when my bro tells me, "We've found an ugly guy for you."

Love is when my sis says, "you will be married to the best person in the world"

Love is when my friend prays for me.

Love is when my best friends says, I will be with you always.

Isn't it beautiful? Can you feel now that love is scatterred all around us, you just need to recognise it. Yes, Love is in the Air... Feel it...

Keep loving,

Ann

Is It All about "Give and Take" ?

PS: If you don't like reading about those typical emotional stuff, then don't waste your time. This one is not for you ;)

No matter how hard we pretend to remain unaffected by the outer world. Somewhere down the line, we all have emotions and feel the pain when expectations are not met. I know I love to give fundas for every situation and one of those fundas is "It's all about Give and Take". Be it family, friends or beloved, we all expect something in return. The proportion might differ from person to person, but I think ... Lolllzz... (As gals can't think according to my dear friend)... But yeah I think expectations are always there in every relationship. That's the question that have been there in my mind for last few day. Do expectations develop with time or with the love or bond you share or is it the kind of relationship you share with the particular person? To sum up it in one line: I would say What's more important: Time, Love or the relationship. Because I might not have much expectation from my siblings while I may expect a lot from a friend. But yeah, being a normal selfish creature, I too expect and sometimes, my fundas fail. I might expect without giving something in return. That's something which is a very big (Sorry, I'm short of the appropriate word) to ask for, that's what I think (Yes, I can think... Loollzzz).. So, what you guys think. Does this "Give and Take" funda applies for you OR you've found the one who loves you UNCONDITIONALLY ??

PPS: I don't know how much sense does this post makes to you. But I would definitely appreciate your views on this.

Flowing with the Time

“Guzari hui zindagi ko yaad na kar , taqdeer me jo likha hai tu uski fariyad na kar. Jo hoga wo hokar rahega, tu fikar me uski apni hansi barbaad na kar.”


Read these line on one of my friends Blog and went back in my past when I had much more to worry about. Friends to fight with, boyfriend to hang around with, the enthusiasm to explore life kept me busy and entertained. But the scenario has changed now in past few couple of years. I got the job, came out of a miserable relationship, made new friends, achieved many things which I ever dream of. Though a lot is happening around me these days, I feel freezed sometimes. No emotions, no strings attached, nothing to expect, monotonous routine have made me a bit mechanical. I don't complain, as it makes me feel miserable. So, just flowing with the time. Don't know where it would take me.

Want To Expand My Wings

Weather is so lovely outside. Today I was not feeling like coming to work (this is not a new thing, I hardly feel like coming to work LOL:). So, on my way to office, looking outside the Cab's window I was feeling like get down there and then only and start walking and enjoy the weather (but could not do so). A rush of emotions in my heart is telling me to do lots of things. Like I want to ride a Scooty and go on my own to wherever I want, catch a good movie, eat something spicy, dance in Rain or just go for a stroll with my Mom. Sooooo ... Excited O.M.G. I think the Weekend Fever has started showing its Symptoms. And with this want to spread my Wings long and wide as possible as I can.