Five signs you are wasting your time and how to fix it.

1. Worry: You unnecessary worry about what and how people will think about you and that stops you from trying new things. 

Fix: Take advice from others but use your own judgement to do what you want by analyzing your capabilities. 

2. Complain: When things don't go as per your expectations, you keep on complaining about that particular situation and waste time and energy.  

Fix it by keeping realistic expectations out of people and time , it would save you from further disappointments and you will learn the art of acceptance gradually. 

3. Lack of Action: Sometimes people are so scared of failures that they don't even try to take action towards their goals. 

Fix it by realizing that failure is a part of life. Failure is not the end but the beginning of new opportunities. 

4. You repeat mistakes: You keep on indulging in the same old patterns and keep repeating the same mistakes instead of feeling guilty as you feel that its too hard for you to change.. 

Fix it by learning the lesson from the mistakes and realizing that change is necessary for you to grow. 

5. You seek external validation: False ego is the reason behind it ... you always try to please others and seek their validation to fulfill your ego. 

Fix it by increasing the fact that you can not please everyone in this world and if you constantly try to do so , you will end up disappointing yourself. 

Hope , next time you will use your time and resources wisely and will keep these points in mind. 

I Miss You

Some grudges and wounds leave their marks forever. No matter, how many years pass, somewhere down the line we all still feel hurt for some or the other loss. Today I was just discussing things with one of my friends. And yeah, we are sailing on the same boat I suppose. Not able to come out of our respective pasts.

I know I gave my 100% to my previous relationship, still it didn't work out. I know he didn't deserve me. I know he was not that into me. Still, why do I still miss him. At the end of the Day, why I ask God what went wrong? Can't he come back and say "Yes I love you and I need you". I know It's not gonna happen. Still we keep hoping for things.

Rite now, I am neither hurt nor happy, but still feel something is missing.

Enjoying

As they say Women love Make up and Shopping when they are depressed. This is true for me. Yesterday, I was feeling not so Good, went home, slept, woke up and listened to some of my favorite songs. Another hectic Day was ahead of me. So, to make it more interesting and refreshing, I decided to put my new dress, which I bought last weekend (that shopping was also done to cheer me up). So, finally I put the dress, put some make up and left for the Office. And see what, I was already feeling Gooood. Alps and Samy gave me nice complements. We clicked some picture and believe me Samy is a great photographer. So, we clicked some pics. People were giving nice complements and all this filled me with loads of positive energy and here I am now, happy, relaxed and working positively. So, Ladies, believe me it works!!! Do some changes, and feel good about it. After all, it's all about the inner contentment :)

And one more thing, Happy Weekend :) Do lots of shopping, go out with friends and Enjoy...

I know, I deserve it :(

As always I am not happy with the things, as they are proceeding. Everybody is getting promotions but I am not. The more frustrating thing is I know I am better than them, but still they got it because they begged for it before me. Sorry, but I don't understand the concept, why don't seniors get into our shoes and feel our pain. Why we need to remind them, hey we need a promotion. Can't they see that we are doing good and this time we need to be on a better position. I am really pissed off. Though I am not happy with my job profile, but I know I am giving my more than 100%, still not getting what I want.

Anyways, not in a mood to talk. Feeling very bad, talked to a friend, but could not explain him my pain ( As I don't prefer cribbing in front of everybody).

Flowing with the Time

“Guzari hui zindagi ko yaad na kar , taqdeer me jo likha hai tu uski fariyad na kar. Jo hoga wo hokar rahega, tu fikar me uski apni hansi barbaad na kar.”


Read these line on one of my friends Blog and went back in my past when I had much more to worry about. Friends to fight with, boyfriend to hang around with, the enthusiasm to explore life kept me busy and entertained. But the scenario has changed now in past few couple of years. I got the job, came out of a miserable relationship, made new friends, achieved many things which I ever dream of. Though a lot is happening around me these days, I feel freezed sometimes. No emotions, no strings attached, nothing to expect, monotonous routine have made me a bit mechanical. I don't complain, as it makes me feel miserable. So, just flowing with the time. Don't know where it would take me.