Showing posts with label Females. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Females. Show all posts

Friday, June 19, 2020

Isn't it Right to stand for yourself?

In modern times when we have grown u reading stories of many Bravehearts like Rani Jhansi, Rani Padmavati, Draupadi, and many females or male characters who inspired us by their decision making and made a mark in the history. A question always arises that why still females or anyone who is a soft-hearted person is considered weaker 

In our society, on one hand, we worship them in form of Durga, Laxmi but on the other hand, in our daily lives, we hear many disturbing stories of domestic abuse, rapes, or sometimes more dangerous of them all that is Mental abuse. People have always tried to hide such stories or chose to keep mum either for the sake of fake society's reputation or their own personal weaknesses. 

We can't blame any particular caste, creed or sex for such things, I feel we females are somewhere responsible for this condition of womanhood. For instance, Why we teach our girls always to be patient even if something wrong happens, Why don't we teach them to differentiate between what's wrong and what's right for them. If we are against a thing, why don't we have the courage to speak for ourselves at the very moment when something wrong happens, why do we wait for years to speak or wait for a big campaign like "Me Too"  

As a woman, I feel it's our responsibility to teach our next generation to stand for themselves, be it a boy or a girl, and support other humans around us who are dealing with something tough in their life. 

A lot that has happened in past few years around me (not exactly in my life), has pushed me to ask this question that is it wrong to speak your mind or stand for yourself?

P.S.  #Sushant Singh Rajput's demise has affected me a lot as he was the first and last actor, I have loved. He was a good human as per the sources and am still not able to accept that he is gone. 

Please help people around you guys and be kind to yourself and the others. 


 


Friday, August 28, 2009

Dedicated to all my Awesome Girl Friends :)

Hey Girls! Here is a lovely poster. I found this on Cindy's Blog. Originally created by Heidi at daisybones, this poster is free to print, share, and use. It's Awesome and I dedicate it to all my girl friends (including the blogger friends). And last but not the least. I dedicate this to my G.O.B's (Gang of Bitches) and B.N.A.G.S. group (My post grad. girl friends)...

Click on it for a bigger version.



Monday, March 2, 2009

Learn Some Manners... For God's Sake

It feels quite disturbing when people forget basic manners or Chivalry (most appropriate word) to treat ladies. Other day one of my very good friends was telling this incidence, people looking forward to get their son married keep infeasible expectations. They ask weird kind of questions like what is your height? (Thank God, they don't ask What's your Vital stats?), how much you earn? (Does your son wants to be dependent on his wife's salary?). Such things really suck. I know, in arranged marriages, people prefer to be a bit cautious, after all you don't know the other person, and for marriage it's required to get all the details. But man, is it ok to insult the poor girl who is sitting there in front of you and not saying anything just for the sake of her parents. Can't you ask such questions in more respectful manner? Get a life man! Females these days are not dumb mules. They are well educated and self dependent. So, why do they have to tolerate such kind of behaviors from people. Can't you guys respect females ????