Five signs you are wasting your time and how to fix it.

1. Worry: You unnecessary worry about what and how people will think about you and that stops you from trying new things. 

Fix: Take advice from others but use your own judgement to do what you want by analyzing your capabilities. 

2. Complain: When things don't go as per your expectations, you keep on complaining about that particular situation and waste time and energy.  

Fix it by keeping realistic expectations out of people and time , it would save you from further disappointments and you will learn the art of acceptance gradually. 

3. Lack of Action: Sometimes people are so scared of failures that they don't even try to take action towards their goals. 

Fix it by realizing that failure is a part of life. Failure is not the end but the beginning of new opportunities. 

4. You repeat mistakes: You keep on indulging in the same old patterns and keep repeating the same mistakes instead of feeling guilty as you feel that its too hard for you to change.. 

Fix it by learning the lesson from the mistakes and realizing that change is necessary for you to grow. 

5. You seek external validation: False ego is the reason behind it ... you always try to please others and seek their validation to fulfill your ego. 

Fix it by increasing the fact that you can not please everyone in this world and if you constantly try to do so , you will end up disappointing yourself. 

Hope , next time you will use your time and resources wisely and will keep these points in mind. 

My First Ever Guest Blog Post

Today I have something to share with you all. Yes, I am very happy and excited for writing my first ever Blog post as a Guest Blogger on Ms. R's Blog. First of all I would like to congratulate Ms. R on completion of her 100th post and then thanks to the Lady, who gave me the pleasure to write a Blog Post for her. I'm soooo excited. And would like you all read my Post titled "Longing" on her Blog. Please do express your views, as they are the most important source of motivation...

Excited !!!!

I am very pissed off... Usually I am... Nothing new... and so do I write Blog for, to make others feel pissed off...

LoLzzz... Nothing like that... A lot is going on in life these days... Can't disclose right now... May be I'll disclose it one by one to add an element of surprise... Yeah, I know, everything has its own charm of that too when it is told on right time...But, as off now, the news is: "I have got a new job". Will Leave my current organization after one week... Quite excited for the new job and looking forward to a great future... May God Bless me... HeHeHeHe... I know I'm selfish Chick... But you know, I'm like that... Over and Out...

Love you all...

Yaad Aayenge Ye Pal (Moments I will Cherish..)

So, after striving hard for targets and many ups and downs in our professional life, we finally got our rewards in form of a "Party in a Pub". Though I have studied in co-ed, spent some of my years in hostel, but the idea of going to disc didn't materialize. Anyways, our whole team was so excited. Nobody was in a mood to work. Everybody was planning like we'll do that, we'll do this and blah blah.

The party was in Suburbia, Metropolitan Mall, Gurgaon. We reached there around 8. In starting everybody was behaving so sophisticated, but after 10-15 mints we all got familiar with the place and then we started having snacks and drinks. I was not in a mood to drink, then somebody suggested that I must try Vodka with Limca. I thought I must try it at least once. Slowly and slowly I sipped the drink. And know what I liked it. Bas phir kya tha, I had another glass and started dancing on the floor. Everybody was dancing there. And for the first time I danced continuously for 2 and half hours. O.M.G, While dancing I was thinking, my energy level has increased. May be it was due to the drink. Then I had 2 more glasses. It was fun! Every body was enjoying. After having 4 glasses, I was feeling a bit dizzy, but I could feel what's going around me. I was not high.

Then we had dinner. Everyone was happy and enjoying. In short the party was great and we all enjoyed. That day was one of my life's best days. Everything seemed to be JUST PERFECT!!! Nothing fell out of place. And yeah I'll cherish it :)

Friends Forever

I am feeling very happy today. You must be wondering why? Actually my best friend came to see me in my office. I know it's not a big deal as compared to what he has done for me in past 7-8 years. Tolerated my impatient behavior, supported through my thick and thins, always motivated me to do better and achieve whatever I wanted to and much more which I can't explain on this Blog. He came here just to see me as our work schedules don't allow us to meet otherwise. Though I was telling him not to come as we can not meet our friends in office for more than 10-15 minutes. But he took all the pain to come and see me. And now I am feeling that these small efforts and things really matter a lot to make the bond more stronger. Feeling too good about it. At least a small change in my daily routine filled me with all the positive energy. And I am happy that I am blessed with so many wonderful people.

Enjoying

As they say Women love Make up and Shopping when they are depressed. This is true for me. Yesterday, I was feeling not so Good, went home, slept, woke up and listened to some of my favorite songs. Another hectic Day was ahead of me. So, to make it more interesting and refreshing, I decided to put my new dress, which I bought last weekend (that shopping was also done to cheer me up). So, finally I put the dress, put some make up and left for the Office. And see what, I was already feeling Gooood. Alps and Samy gave me nice complements. We clicked some picture and believe me Samy is a great photographer. So, we clicked some pics. People were giving nice complements and all this filled me with loads of positive energy and here I am now, happy, relaxed and working positively. So, Ladies, believe me it works!!! Do some changes, and feel good about it. After all, it's all about the inner contentment :)

And one more thing, Happy Weekend :) Do lots of shopping, go out with friends and Enjoy...

I know, I deserve it :(

As always I am not happy with the things, as they are proceeding. Everybody is getting promotions but I am not. The more frustrating thing is I know I am better than them, but still they got it because they begged for it before me. Sorry, but I don't understand the concept, why don't seniors get into our shoes and feel our pain. Why we need to remind them, hey we need a promotion. Can't they see that we are doing good and this time we need to be on a better position. I am really pissed off. Though I am not happy with my job profile, but I know I am giving my more than 100%, still not getting what I want.

Anyways, not in a mood to talk. Feeling very bad, talked to a friend, but could not explain him my pain ( As I don't prefer cribbing in front of everybody).

Stay Happy :) with your Happy Weight.

Though I have never been one of those style icons in my group, looking good and staying fresh has always been there on my fundas. Earlier I used to be very skinny, you won't believe my parents once took me to the doctor to advice some medicines so that I can get some weight. LOL. But, gone are the days. Packed schedules, odd office hours and unhealthy eating habits have affected my body in last few years. Gained weight has made me conscious of my health and eating habits. I have started keeping check on what I eat and when (at what time) I eat. In fact, I have seen many people curbing their urge to eat great food even if they like it. But from my various experiences, I have learnt that I can't go on diet. After all, why should I keep myself away from great food :) when I am medically fit (like I don't have health problems like diabetes, or I am not pregnant LOL).

Yesterday, I was just surfing the web and found this great tool to measure our happy weight. You all must be wondering what's that? Actually the weight you were meant to be, one that is healthy and easy to maintain is the happy weight.

So find out your HAPPY WEIGHT and stop obsessing about your body and your diet as I did.